A success skill when it comes to people is how they are treated. A genuine approach is building trust. Showing respect. Sharing. Appreciation.Showing that you care through kindness. Celebrating their successes with them, big or small. Encouragement. An open dialogue is key.
Do yourself a favor and associate with people who have the same mindset as you. If you hang around with 9 losers, chances are you will be the 10th soon.