Your own family will talk bad about you when you are in the process of breaking all their generational curses. This is not for the weak.
That truth is heavy, but it is real for so many people. Growth is not always celebrated, especially when it challenges long standing patterns. When you decide to think differently, live differently, set boundaries, heal, or want more for your life than what has always been accepted, it can make others uncomfortable. Even the people who share your last name.
Breaking generational cycles means doing things that may have never been done before. It means questioning unhealthy habits. It means refusing to normalize dysfunction. It means choosing healing over silence, growth over fear, and accountability over excuses. And not everyone is ready for that.
I think one of the most heartfelt experiences in life is discovering that someone genuinely enjoys your presence. Not what you provide, Not your accomplishments. Just you, your thoughts, your energy, your existence.
If theres a zone you boys must avoid at all cost,in your endeavors of finding love,its that one we call the breadcrumbing zone. Hapa usipojichunga utateseka sana ndugu yangu. Its that place and time where you’re talking to a woman,you’re genuinely interested in her,but if you text her now,she will reply 8 hours later. Then you get very excited and reply 5 minutes later,which she then replies 6 hours later. These women are heartless i tell you
Na mwanamke hakuambii hakutaki, apana. She actually makes it look like shes interested in you,but she shows very little effort. Sasa wewe unabaki ukiwaza kuhusu iyo nugu siku mzima,kumbe ata hana mipango yako aki. Shes just enjoying your attention. Hapa ndio huwa unajipata umeanza kununua magift,ukidhani ataanza kukuongelesha msuri,alafu ukienda kumkiss anakwambia “Okay I think we’re going too fast”
Too fast ghasia na bill inasoma 6500 kenyattas? Weh! Mimi kuna mwingine niliambia i love you nikaona kweli anang’eng’ana kufungia kicheko. Karibu akule kidungi aki. Kama unajua uko kwa breadcrumbs sahii hebu toka. Sababu ile vumbi itakupiga, iko kitengela inafanya fueling. Senzi sana!