@btMAND21@alyoshkie Acknowledge the choice you’re making is not a feminist one, then examine why you need to make that choice. Is it an outlet? am I performing this submission safely and with someone who understands that this play? But I don’t expect everything you do to be feminist.
@btMAND21@alyoshkie That is not what I’m saying friend. I’m saying there’s room for you in feminism as long as you’re continuously making an effort to deconstruct your place in society. If you want to be a sub, that’s fine but you have to examine yourself and your experiences.
@alyoshkie It’s unrealistic to imagine that for women. The key is just making the next best decision with the woman behind you in mind. So I don’t think someone being submissive in the privacy of their own home takes away from their feminism. They are not advocating for it to be law or
@vickyslyth_@biresistance Nobody benefits from it. Not the writer who gets a ton of hate, not the celebrities who see their likeness used in ways they don’t consent to and not even the readers because someone just blow up their spot and there are people who don’t belong there judging their fics
@dsrteagles It’s happened in every single fandom with a non black celebrity. Like it’s okay to critique the people you love… I hope you do that in your personal life as well. It’s normal and healthy.
@withilyarozanov@lanamiaya The immediate response being oh that’s not true, he wouldn’t and it’s like it’s been 9 months or so. You didn’t even know him this same time last year. The immediate desire to invalidate everyone hurt and call them not real fans is crazy.
@withilyarozanov@lanamiaya I read it… but it doesn’t really solve any problems for me because I’ve always wanted to wait for clarification. Even if the account was Hudson’s it wouldn’t have made him racist just ignorant especially if he was 16 at the time. But all the huddles on here are cultish
@hudfirst@heehehehehew Why you explaining yourself? The policing in this fandom is insane. You’d think people are getting paid to be this strict. Even if you left so what? When you got here the first time it wasn’t with anyone’s permission. Tf? This is supposed to be fun
@phenynobs But you’ve spent all this time on the timeline invalidating the feelings of black fans who decided to step away from this. Is that not hypocritical of you or do you just don’t care because you’re ignorant and you want to have fun on twitter.
@phenynobs Don’t make statements on other people’s intentions if you’re unwilling to receive feedback, it’s not that hard to comprehend that someone might feel the need to express their opinion on your opinion. Like that’s the point of social media. You’re being obtuse.