One thing about having standards is you have to be okay with being alone.
Good people are rare and if you’re not patient, you’ll end up settling for nonsense.
Ever since i saw that man who helped cut his wife nails while she was bedridden, bath her, watch movies with her every night without fail, kiss her every morning till she got better and i saw that ijaw woman that was posted on instablog where she would feed her paralysed husband and sing for him as she fed him, call him sweet names i just knew i will never marry for anything other than love.
Responsibility, support and ‘saying I love you’ is not enough for me at all. Love is an action word.
I need testimonies of people who went through really tough times, who tried everything and it looked like it was never gonna happen for them until one day things changed for the better. I need those testimonies because wow🥹
This probably why back in the day when you ask how child birth is, those with experience will keep shut. Cos the truth will not encourage more women to have kids.