i’m really going through a major detachment phase, please watch how you speak to me. that goes for family, friends, and relationships. y’all are on VERY thin ice. i’m not in the mood for life, let alone anyone’s bullshit
unfortunately, i am my family's most independent and distant child so i will sit here by myself, act like i don't need anyone, and fight every single problem by myself
Breakups hurt. You know what REALLY fucking hurts? Trying to”make it work” with someone who has PROVEN to you TIME AND TIME AGAIN that they do not give a fuck about your feelings. THAT hurts
are you actually “low maintenance” or did you just internalize at a young age that less resources, attention, and energy you require, the more lovable you are? so you take the least amount space possible???? because you think you’re unlovable if you express desire or needs????
Guys are in my mentions complaining that a woman with an eight week old infant wouldn't take time away from the baby to make sure he has a hot dinner on the table when he comes home.
This is the point I am making : You, as father, should want that mother to spend as much time as possible bonding with that baby or caring for herself.
Putting your desire for a hot meal above these two shows a kind of whacked out thinking that has twisted your priorities.
You are a grown man, you don't need her to make you dinner, especially in this situation.
If you are old enough to make a baby, you're old enough to make a sandwich.
Don’t be afraid to “downsize” your career to meet yourself where you’re at. Taking a lower paid/status job to focus on your health and wellness is a valid and empowering choice. Also consider a career break where you’re just feeding your soul and working on personal projects
I love when I get to spend time with ppl who have known me for 10+ years and they naturally remind me who I am and have always been.
I rly be needing that.
i think it’s so crazy how the second a victim comes forward and shares their story everyone immediately tries to dig up dirt on them and find any excuse that they aren’t worthy of empathy because of how they deal with/react to their trauma like you are all so sick in the head
People talk about how great it is to keep private and not overshare. But no one talks about how hard it is to keep your conflicts private and not tell everyone your side of the story to clear your name when toxic people play the victim and paint you as the villain in their story.
Updated flyer and AMBER Alert info (height 4ft6, shirt is pink) ⬇️ PLEASE SHARE. 9 year old Charlotte Sena was ABDUCTED from the Lake Moreau State Park, NY on Saturday, September 30th, 2023 at approximately 6:45 PM (she was last seen around 6:15PM) #charlottesena
I cannot stop thinking about this sweet child. Charlotte Sena has been missing for over 24 hours. She was abducted from Moreau Lake State Park in New York. Please send prayers, well wishes, good vibes, whatever it is that you do, for her to return home unharmed. 🤍
***AMBER ALERT UPDATED DESCRIPTION*** PLEASE SHARE! NYSP has activated AMBER Alert for a child abduction that occurred near Moreau Lake State Park in Gansevoort, NY at about 6:45 PM on 9/30/2023. Anyone with any information should call the NYSP at (518) 457-6811 or dial 911.
i see through so many people and not even in a bad way. i see their gifts, their strengths, their beauty, their wounds, their insecurities, the things they withhold and don’t want to let anyone know. and i just sit with it. but it’s a beautiful vision to have.
If you withdraw, shut down, or isolate when you are overwhelmed, you likely have an avoidant attachment style. When you were a child, you could’ve been left to handle intense emotions by yourself or not taught to self regulate so now you always feel you need to be alone to cope.
If you withdraw, shut down, or isolate when you are overwhelmed, you likely have an avoidant attachment style. When you were a child, you could’ve been left to handle intense emotions by yourself or not taught to self regulate so now you always feel you need to be alone to cope.