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A thousand things about me. 😍

Am doing this list for me, not for you. Its my “mid-life” whatever. Am making this list, cause i keep changing myself to fit the image of what my exes (plural) want for a partner. Slowly losing myself in the process.

So, this is for me. 🧡

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Hey everyone! If you are interested or know someone who’d like to join and participate, do tell. 💕

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When someone brightens your day… Just by being with you… 🫶🏻 Hehe. My sunshine 🌞

[Dr. Deano @sexdoctordeano]

To Everybody Who Feels that Gay Relationships are Doomed to Fail

Love demands risk. If you’re not willing to risk disappointment, vulnerability, or being wrong about someone, you’re not choosing love. You’re choosing self-protection.

Every real relationship requires you to step into uncertainty. Walang love na sigurado from day one. The moment you decide to love someone, you accept that there are no guarantees.

That’s not a flaw of love, that’s the price of it.

- Sex Doctor Deano

[Libriscent @libriscent]

You’re not required to give everyone full access to your life, even the people you’re close to. You don’t owe anybody every detail or update. It’s okay to keep some things to yourself. Privacy isn’t deception, it’s boundaries. I don’t get why people think closeness means knowing everything.

[Libriscent @libriscent]

Dark Psychology fact:
If someone keeps you confused, they’re doing it on purpose.
Confusion keeps you stuck and doubting while they get to do whatever the fuck they want.

Confusion is a control tactic.
A good woman brings clarity.
A manipulator brings fog.
If you keep needing “signs” and “closure” — that’s the leash.

[Libriscent @libriscent]

Fast = Fake

If he falls for you instantly…
he’s not deep.
He’s desperate for control. ⬇️

1- Real attraction unfolds.
Manipulation rushes.
2- Speed creates attachment before discernment.

[Libriscent @libriscent]

What do you do when someone is not ready to be with you?

You walk away. Love yourself enough to walk away from anyone who doesn't know your worth.
Believe me, one day you will meet someone who will drink up every ounce of your magnificence, making you wonder what you were doing wasting your time with someone who had no idea what you truly deserved. Walk away from anyone who is unsure about you, no matter how right you think it feels. Because at the end of it, if they were so right for you then you wouldn't be losing sleep over why you both aren't together.

[Libriscent @libriscent]

people don’t talk enough about how emotionally inconsistency can mess with someone who’s been through trauma. it’s not just overthinking or being sensitive. it’s the body reacting to patterns it had to learn young. when love turned cold without warning or silence meant punishment, the nervous system adjusted. now even a change in tone, a delayed reply, or a shift in someone’s vibe can feel like danger. it’s not about being dramatic it’s about how survival once depended on noticing every small sign before things went bad. and that kind of wiring doesn’t just go away.

[Psychodoctor @Psychodoctor06]

What is the dynamic in your relationship ?

In relationships, there are three possible dynamics:

Two givers.
Two takers.
One giver and one taker.

Each creates a very different emotional outcome.

1. Two givers:

This is the healthiest and rarest combination.

Both people care about each other’s needs and
give without keeping score.

Here, giving doesn’t feel like sacrifice.
It feels like choice.
Boundaries exist.
Communication exists.
Care flows both ways.
Even when problems arise, there is goodwill to lean on.

This relationship grows because both refill the space.

2. Two takers:

This relationship is loud, draining, and unstable.

Both people focus on what they are not getting, feel entitled to attention, time, effort,
struggle with empathy,
see compromise as loss.

Here, every interaction becomes a negotiation or a fight.

Both feel unheard.
Both feel wronged.
Both keep score.

These relationships burn fast due to constant conflict.

3. One giver and one taker

This is the most common and has a painful dynamic.

The giver:
adjusts,
explains,
waits,
forgives,
overfunctions.

The taker:
receives,
expects,
minimizes,
avoids accountability,
rarely reflects.

At first, it looks functional.
The giver feels needed.
The taker feels supported.

But slowly, imbalance sets in.

The giver becomes tired, resentful, invisible.

The taker becomes comfortable, entitled, unchanged.

Love does not survive chronic imbalance.

Giving without reciprocity turns into self-erasure.

Taking without awareness turns into exploitation.

The giver often believes: “If I just give better, love will return.”

The taker often believes: “This is just how relationships work.”

Both are wrong.

Healthy relationships are about mutual responsibility.

Sometimes one gives more during illness, grief, stress.

But over time, balance must return.

A relationship doesn’t fail due to lack of love.

It fails when effort stops flowing both ways.

Two givers build something lasting.

Two takers destroy each other.

One giver and one taker slowly break the giver.

Are you the giver or the taker ?

#relationships

[Libriscent @libriscent]

People be allergic to accountability then got the nerve to say “you coulda just talked to me.” Nah, I couldn’t. You don’t listen, you deflect, you gaslight, and somehow flip it like I’m the problem just for speaking up. Every time I tried to explain myself, I walked away feeling crazy. So I chose silence, not cause I didn’t care, but cause I was protecting my peace. I wanted to fix it fr, I just wasn’t finna keep fighting to be heard by somebody committed to misunderstanding me.

[Libriscent @libriscent]

Girl, let him lose you. If he doesn’t want to reply to your texts for hours, let him. If he doesn’t want to make plans or spend time with you, let him be. If he wanted to put effort into seeing you, talking to you, or being with you, he would. And if he doesn’t, another man will.

[Libriscent @libriscent]

Being in a situationship is actually wild. You’re loyal without the title, patient without reassurance, understanding without consistency . You’re explaining your feelings to someone who benefits from not understanding them, acting like a partner while being treated like an option. It’s late night conversations with no future plans, mixed signals disguised as “I’m just busy,” emotional intimacy without emotional security . And the craziest part? You start questioning yourself instead of questioning the situation. A situationship will teach you everything about your worth right before it tests how long you’ll ignore it.