Make the most with what you have now.
Remember, there was a moment in your life when you wished for what you have NOW to do more.
Now that you have it, go ahead and do more and continue to manifest what you need to achieve your goals.
#SumOfHer#NoExcuses#Mindset
Everybody wants growth until it means facing the shit they buried.
You want better? Start inside.
Mindset. Triggers. Trauma.
Heal your heart, clean your mind.
Stop dressing pain in designer and calling it luxury when you're broke inside.
#sumofher#HealingOutLoud#GrowthIsMessy
The truth’s too spicy for some of you...
Not everyone’s built to face the mirror.
So they flinch at facts, lie to save face,
and cling to excuses like lifelines.
It’s giving: emotionally bankrupt.
Accountability? Never met her.
Maturity? Nah, they skipped that update.
🤷🏾♀️
Sometimes the loudest voice in your head is a lie.
The one that tells you no one would notice if you disappeared.
I believed that once.
I was wrong.
You are not alone.
You are not a burden.
#MentalHealthMatters#YouAreNotAlone#SumOfHer
Some of you haven't healed from past trauma & it shows... and that is okay.
But please take the time you need to truly heal, because putting on appearances for ppl who don't give a f*ck about you is wild.
Healing is a journey MANY ppl are on in REAL LIFE. You're not alone
Sometimes your silence is how you regain control.
You do not have to show up to every argument. You do not have to comment or involve yourself in things that do not concern you.
Observe in silence and control your response instead of allowing others to control how you respond
People will judge, gossip, dislike and hate you because of assumptions, misconceptions and the opinions formed without any facts. People will dislike you for the mere fact that you have a pulse.
𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝘼𝙧𝙚 𝙒𝙝𝙤 𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝘼𝙧𝙚: 𝙊𝙬𝙣 𝙄𝙩.
#SumOfHer#WomenEmpowerment
Some of the most dangerous people are those who want to be friends with EVERYONE.
They will say enough to your face to keep up appearances and say more behind your back.
These people have NO loyalty to anyone but themselves. #SumOfHer#Foes#LifeLessons
Remaining kind and true to yourself and your morals in a world that sh*ts on you takes a strong person.
That strong person is YOU.
Do not let anyone provoke you into altering who you are.
#SumOfHer
Although this chapter is difficult to navigate physically, emotionally and mentally, keep turning the page, the book is not complete.
The chapter you are currently living is not the end, keep going. Do not give up.
#SumOfHer
You are not obligated to allow people access to you because they are 'familiar'.
Put standards on your relationships—lovers, family, friends, whomever. If they are not adding to your life in a positive way, downgrade their access to you.
Familiarity isn't a reason to settle.
Stop stressing over what isn’t yours—you cannot control them or it.
People & things come and go; stop stressing over what you cannot control.
Your life is yours, let that be your focus. Remember, it’s short and not promised, so let’s treasure the time we have.#Life#SumThoughts
If your E N T I R E timeline is negative and relating to shit you claimed to be over what is even the point?🤨🙃
At this point you’re posting for attention and the person doesn’t care. Either move on/get over it OR sit in your shit and settle for less.#YourChoice#HarshButTrue🤷🏾♀️