I remember after 2008 when the politicians were done using young men as goons ,they unleashed a squad of killer police to eliminate all of them in the name of fighting mùngìkì . For months young men around kiambu and Nairobi had to live indoors never leaving their parents compounds ata duka hawakua wanaenda . We had to baby sit them at all times to keep them from leaving .
Any young man being used as a goon mark my words, because you can be used as a witness in court ,your life is in more danger than you know . Say no to goonism, say no to being used.
@nyar_uai You learn to decenter them after an astronomical number of fuck ups. You realize that you chase relationships that replicate your relationship with your caregivers and that becomes your lightbulb moment to undo their upbringing and make yourself new.
If he ghosts you after you sleep with him, give me his number. I’ll call and tell him we found your body and he was the last person to be seen with you.
Deciding between free bleeding or wearing a pad on the 4th /5th day of your period is crazy .
If you choose to free bleed, you’ll actually bleed, but if you wear a pad , nothing happens 😂
This is why Korean feminists started the 4B movement.
“I will not give birth to a life that will discriminate against my gender. My own flesh and blood must not become a blade and turn against me. If the world born from my body oppresses me I will not let that world exist.”
I don’t want my daughter to be like me. I want her to speak up sooner. Walk away faster. Trust herself deeper. Apologize less. Take up more space. Ask bigger questions. Dream louder. And if that means she becomes everything I wasnt… GOOD!
Everytime I see 30+ yr old guys checking out younger babes I just know they’re sore losers, 0 personality cause if you are financially stable why wouldn’t you want someone with a similar socioeconomic status?