Trans people need to stop blaming other trans people for transphobia. No, the trans person using neopronouns is not why transphobes don't like you. No, trans men being open about their top scars is not why transphobes try to clock stealth trans men. Let's use our brains.
"I support enby people, but..."
No, you don't.
If your "support" for nonbinary ppl is predicated on them presenting within a narrowly confined range of "acceptable levels of fem & masc," or else you will misgender and attack them for existing, you don't support JACK SHIT.