setting boundaries after being a people pleaser is such a weird experience because why do i feel guilty every time i choose myself 😭 like no, i’m not being mean. i’m just finally listening to myself too.
Aftercare after an arguments/ disagreements in a relationship is very important. It leaves 0 room for uncertainty, plus it nurtures the feelings that might’ve been hurt during the argument. AND it’s also another form of reassurance.
I should not be dealing with you and feeling lonely. I look good and im fun do u think youre the only one who wants to get next to me thats so crazy of you!!!
It hurts to be made out to be a bad person when you know how many times you stopped thinking about yourself to prioritize the well,being of others. It's true that many people only see what you didn't do, but they forget all the times you were there when no one else was.
I’m going through a phase right now where I think I’m finally learning how to let things go. The feelings I’ve carried for too long. The people I’ve outgrown. The fears that kept me stuck. The memories I kept revisiting and the things I kept holding onto, even when they no longer belonged in my life. I’m realising that letting go doesn’t mean it didn’t matter. It means I’m finally accepting that some things were only meant to be part of my story, not the rest of it. And honestly, I think I’m ready for something new. New beginnings. New chapters. New people. New experiences. More laughter, love, spontaneous memories and moments that make me grateful to be alive. I’m done looking back at everything I’m leaving behind. It’s time to move forward and make room for everything I haven’t experienced yet.
acts of service men are dangerously attractive.
fixing problems, making sure you’ve eaten, charging your phone, carrying your things... that’s romance to me