I am weird. I am expressive. I am playful. I am affectionate. I am curious. I am sometimes intense. I am sometimes quiet.
This is what comes out when I'm
comfortable. I'm going to stop pre-editing myself for hypothetical rejection.
scarcity increases salience
when someone is expressive and constantly available, your brain doesn’t assign every interaction enormous significance.
but when someone is relatively sparse, every little movement can suddenly feel precious.