@Dick22846606 If my Dom stopped acting like a Dom I would be worried that there was something going on, like stress, and I'd a) communicate and ask what was going on then b) start serving him harder and working harder to make sure he was taken care of in every way that I can help.
@Hislilcutie01 I'm always baffled by how exhausting just existing in a car is. Don't get too down on your body I think this one might just be one of the many universal mysteries of the universe.
@Hislilcutie01 Literally same! I'm excited for you, have all the fun anticipating your visit and tell your brain to put down the binoculars and stop looking into the future.
Unless you thrive, I gain no power by commanding yours.
Grinding you down and taking everything you have wins me nothing, and we both lose. All your potential, wasted.
Making you a bigger, better, stronger, more productive, prouder, happier person instead, serves both of us.
This applies to all tops and all kinks. I hate hearing "mid-scene check ups ruin the headspace." Good tops are creative and there are a thousand ways for any type of mood to check in and keep everyone safe.
Mid-scene consent phrases for Doms:
“Use your words, little one. I’m not going to stop unless you say the safeword” 😈 (still, if things go awry, stop!)
“Do you like that, sweetie? Mommy wants you to feel good” 😌
“Show me how you like to be touched, baby.” 😏
@SpankMeSore My opinion: it's not as scary as it's hyped up to be. You do need to be aware the pain level can be unpredictable. Depending on how juicy/ fresh the ginger is can greatly increase the pain and when it comes out it still hurts for awhile so don't do it too long the first time.
@OliviaAsks@TheGoverness40 Soooo I tried to google reverse image it and look what I found... for anyone who might be interested 🤷🏼♀️ https://t.co/y1WjwH2zu2
@SpankMeSore@stoic_dom@GingerlySpanked No you aren't, most brats don't want their bratting ignored but a lot of tops don't know how to handle it and make empty threats which is the worst way to handle it.
@SpankMeSore@stoic_dom@GingerlySpanked I don't think I'm very good at avoiding anything lol. In fact I keep forgetting that I can't just sass him without repercussions like I'm used to.