No one tells you how hard it is to rewire your brain to allow amazing things to happen after experiencing trauma or pain. Blessings exist, good people exist, and a soft life exists. Let it happen.
She wants to feel desired on a soul level. She wants you to explore her mind, learn how she likes her coffee/tea, what makes her feel alive. She wants you to listen & hold her. She wants to feel seen & valued, and she wants to feel safe to love devotionally