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I’ve never seen anyone tell a man to endure a bad wife, as soon he has a bad wife or he start complaining about his wife,the first thing he’s asked to do is “leave that woman and marry another woman”, nobody is asking him to pray or fast for his wife or be patient with his wife but when a woman marries a bad Husband everyone is suddenly telling her to pray, the church tells her to endure and fast and give him time to change.
They’re telling her she’s a mother and men are big babies so she need to treat him as one, she should nurture a grown man,it’s the reason why they associate endurance,patience and long suffering with the female gender
Why’s endurance meant for women and men are told to love themselves and never tolerate any forms of disrespect from a woman?, if you like endure rubbish from a man, he wouldn’t tolerate the same from you.
If 80% of Nigerian men think they should abandon their wife because she was raped by a kidnapper, then 80% of Nigerian men do not deserve to be married, and all the women who would have married them or are currently married to them are better off single / as single mothers.
A man's money is never your money.
i can't buy into this idea of marry rich or only date high value men cause there is zero security in any of that.
As a woman the only financial security you have is to make your own money and ensure you always have a way to make more!
Go the ghetto and slums of Nigeria
All the poor men there have girlfriends and wives. And some of them have women fighting over them
So this talk of Nigerian women not dating broke men is funny. In which Nigeria?
All these children wey full Nigeria who born them? na stick born them? In a country where most people are poor. Who come dey marry dey born?
The problem with some young men I think is that, them dey always treat dating & relationship like conquest. Always wanting who no want them.
As a woman I am extremely aware that the reason I have my rights is because a woman somewhere got up, got MOUTHY, organised, raged, made herself INCREDIBLY inconvenient until things changed for the better for all of us. Which is precisely why I see women who uphold the patriarchy as traitors to all women.
A man cheating is no diff from a woman cheating, both make the same choice to betray their partner. Women’s cheating is not worse, It’s patriarchal crap!
No one is born more faithful bcos of gender; believing it’s “normal” for men to cheat & judge women harshly for it must END!!
My fellow Nigerians, I suspect that if, in your childhood, your parents went scorched-earth on every single infraction, big or small, the odds that you know how to regulate your emotions in your adult domestic life are slim to none.