@johnhawkinsrwn@jk_rowling No matter how much I identify as a hot, rich 20something (which I still am in my head), reality says I am a nearly 60 year old grey haired gramma hoping to afford retirement. One is fantasy, the other is reality.
@SteveRodio@jk_rowling I have no problem letting people identify as they wish. My problem is when they ask me to participate in their dysphoria or insist on being in spaces reserved for my biological reality