The people who take the effort to meet you on birthdays, be there for graduation ceremonies, visit you in hospitals, celebrate your important milestones by your side; those people, those friends and family, they matter.
False hopes can blind us to the truth, leading to disappointment, unhappiness, and emotional distress in the long run. It is therefore essential to cultivate self-awareness and set realistic expectations. Remember, prioritizing your own well-being is never selfish.
Fuck yeah!