Apologize. Admit your mistake & take full responsibility. It shows your human weakness. You’ll gain a lot more respect that way rather than trying to push the blame to someone else. It’s this self-awareness that allows us to grow and learn from our mistakes.
Istighfar:
The key to blocked doors.
The rain to a dry heart.
The cleansing of sins you forgot you committed.
"Seek forgiveness from your Lord, He is ever Forgiving." [71:10]
Kun faya kun, Believe in miracles. It's His one kun that can change your entire condition. We genuinely feel like giving up on somethings but we have Allah who only says Be, and it is. Anything you want, believe with whole heart that Allah will give you. Just a matter of one Kun.
O Allah, I have wronged myself greatly, and none forgives sins except You. So, grant me forgiveness from Yourself and have mercy upon me. Indeed, You are the Oft-Forgiving, the Most Merciful.
For those who are sincerely asking for the reason;
Some platforms make it too easy to send what should’ve stayed private. Marry someone who values what should remain unseen.
A hint is enough for the wise.
Support Palestine in whatever way you can. Do your best, bearing in mind that not everyone can do what you do. Their circumstances may be different. Think good thoughts. Trust them. I've always said, "What I do, you cannot do and what you do, I cannot. Together we will succeed."
Pray a lot! Pray for everything, especially if it seems silly or impossible and you can barely voice it. pray for the little things and the big things and everything in between. Pray and then watch how little miracles fill your life.
@mussy03_ Ngl im in a similar position but i always think: we’ve already suffered a lot in this world, are we ready for more suffering in the hereafter? Like this (& the fact that its haram) are the only reason I never ended it. May Allah make things better for us all🤍
It’s natural to feel broken if you’ve been treated badly or been the subject of rumours etc. But remember, some things are not within your control. Turn every anxiety, fear and concern into a supplication. Look at it as another reason to submit to the Almighty. Let Him take over.