This early dating tip surprised my guy friends:
Never make jokes about a woman’s safety.
Example: She says she’s sharing her location with friends during your date. Do NOT say “What, you don’t trust me?!”
It activates an ick so primal, so powerful, that you will not recover.
"men just don't care about those things" and it's just a list of all of the little things that weave together the social fabric of society, and then we wonder out loud why men are lonely.
I wonder what would happen if women just stopped doing the emotional labour? ‘Oh we haven’t seen your family in two years? Wow’ ‘Oh no did we miss your niece’s birthday?’ ‘I have no idea what there is to eat’ ‘I’ve no idea where your favourite top is, I didn’t know you had one!’