A rule that will improve your relationships: Never assume bad intent, but don’t ignore repeated patterns. Everyone gets grace. Nobody gets unlimited passes.
I said it earlier, Éric Chelle is an incredible coach. How he got the Super Eagles playing so well in a classic 4-4-2 formation should be studied. It’s a shame this very good Nigeria team won’t be playing at the World Cup.
The biggest rule in a relationship is no matter how mad you are at your partner, you do not go and seek someone else's attention. You sit your asş there and make it right. Because that's your person. If you can easily go to someone else, you do not love the person you are with.
You don’t need a perfect partner. You need someone who can regulate their emotions, admit when they fck up, and actually sit with uncomfortable conversations without shutting down, flipping it on you, or throwing low blows every time sht gets real.
I am actually a very easy person to get rid of; just show me that you don’t want me around or make me feel like I’m doing too much, and I’m gone for good.
As someone whose team just faced Osimhen, I have to say playing against him is genuinely scary and frustrating. Our centre backs aren’t usually this bad, and we rarely struggle this much when defending crosses. But this guy is an absolute monster.
Right now, I genuinely think he has the best box presence in world football. His movement is extremely intelligent, he knows exactly when and where to attack the space, and physically he is on another level. His strength makes it almost impossible to duel with him, his jumping ability is insane, and he always seems to be at the end of every single cross.
With all due respect to Galatasaray, he’s seriously wasting his prime years in Turkey. He deserves a better team in a top league.
Update your partner always. It's not a rule, It's a love language Your partner shouldn't guess where you are. They shouldn't wonder what you're doing. Updating them is not control. It's love. It says, "You matter. I want you to know."
I think one of the biggest lessons I learned this year is that peace is something you build. It doesn’t just show up. You create it by letting go, setting boundaries, and refusing to carry what isn’t yours.