just putting my 2 cents in as someone w diagnosed bpd !! if you have bpd you will NEVER heal until you’re able to admit that you ARE responsible for how you treat ppl regardless of the bpd . yes you have a trauma based disorder caused by others and in a way you
no offense to people w bpd like absolutely none bc i have several friends that are #bpdedout but why do some of them act like they aren’t responsible for their actions and refuse any accountability whatsoever LMAOOO
reminder that mental illness or pain does not justify abusive behaviour so please take responsibility for your actions rather than victimizing yourself
the worst thing about being chronically suicidal is that you don't plan for the future because you are just planning to be dead, and then it's the future and you are not dead and you've just totally fucked up your life for no reason.