sometimes I don’t want an apology. I want you to experience the exact situation you put me through so I can see if you still think that the shit was okay. 🧐
I think we underestimate how important it is to choose a partner whose lifestyle is compatible with yours. Love matters, attraction matters, chemistry matters. But eventually you’re sharing mornings, weekends, money, habits, families, stress, health, responsibilities and thousands of ordinary decisions. You’re not only choosing a person. You’re choosing a way of living.
It’s really selfish to enter someone’s life, see that they’re a loving, cheerful and good person and decide to ruin their peace because you haven’t dealt with your own issues.
Sometimes I accidentally accept the bare minimum trying to be considerate of what others are going through & that is a habit I need to let go of expeditiously
I need the girls to get DISGUSTED by a man never buying flowers, planning dates, building a bond, investing in & pouring love + effort into a good hearted woman that deserves it. GET DISGUSTED.