for relationships to last you really gotta see your partner's point of view of things .and be considerate. And be willing to grow. people can learn from their mistakes it's all about communication.
You can recognize an unhealed person by how they protect their ego instead of protecting the relationship. To them, winning the argument matters more than keeping the connection alive.
if u offer me a sincere apology & change ur behavior, I'll never bring up our past issues again. But if no apology was given and ur still repeating mistakes, u can't ask me to stop mentioning the past. The "past" is actually the present if u haven't changed.
I'm starting to feel nothing for men. No matter how they look or what they say. Liking them just takes so much from you and it's never worth the investment.
Decentering men is the best thing you can do, ladies.
Remember, “Barbie has a great day every day, but Ken only has a great day if Barbie looks at him."
i got cheated on, betrayed, lusted, denied, ghosted, lied to, replaced, manipulated, taken for granted, and abandoned. i gave my trust to the wrong people, loved harder than i was loved, and stayed even when i knew i was no longer valued. i've been blamed for things i didn't do, left without an explanation, and watched someone i cared about choose someone else. yet after everything, my heart is still full of love. i still believe that one day, i'll find someone who chooses me without hesitation.