Ppl hate when you live in your truth cause they got NO tea on you 😂 when you’re authentic there’s nothing to dig up, twist, or expose. Peace and honesty leave mfs with nothing to sip but their own bitterness !
People with high STANDARDS gatekeep their personality and are highly selective. They NEVER trade their authenticity for approval and NEVER compete to prove they're better than anyone. At the smallest sign of insecurity or resentment, they remove access without any explanation.
I sleep well at night because I don't spend my time plotting against people or manipulating them or using them for my own gain. My conscience is clear because my intentions are genuine and I don't carry hidden agendas toward anyone. Peace comes easier when your heart and actions align. there's a different kind of freedom in knowing you've treated people honestly.
all I want in this life is to be treated like the kind, sensitive woman that I am. with consideration and intention at every decision when someone deals with me.
Hating me is pointless. I’m just gonna psychoanalyze your behavior, trace it back to your childhood, figure out why you are the way you are… and somehow end up feeling bad for you. Now I’m not even mad. I’m concerned. 😭
It’s a privilege to experience you as a friend, a lover, a partner or anything in between. To know the way your mind works. To hear the things you don’t tell everyone. To be trusted with your softness, your fears, your weird little habits and the parts of you that you usually keep guarded. Never let someone make you feel like your presence is something they’re simply tolerating. You are not difficult to love because you feel deeply. You are not too much because you care intensely. You are not replaceable just because someone failed to recognise what they had. The right people won’t make you question whether having you in their life is a burden. They’ll understand that your love, loyalty, friendship and presence are things to be appreciated, not taken for granted. Don’t let someone who couldn’t value you convince you that you weren’t valuable. Being loved by you is a privilege and the right people will never make you feel otherwise.
The smartest move you'll ever make is walking away from the chaos you never should've entertained in the first place. Not every battle is yours. Not every mess is worth cleaning up. Protect your peace, and let fools play their own games
I used to tolerate way too much because I didn’t want to lose people. I’d let things slide, give too many chances, and accept stuff I knew I wasn’t cool with just to keep somebody around. I don’t care about that anymore. If keeping you in my life means I gotta keep disrespecting my own boundaries, I’d rather lose you.
Cutting people off for how they view you is actually incredibly valid. I have no dealings with people who view everything I say or do through a negative lens. That’s a huge waste of time.