I’m sorry. Please tell me if I am in the wrong. You borrow money from me to buy your daughter somethings, but then I see you on a vacation shortly after when you haven’t paid me back? Am I the asshole if I immediately ask for the money back?
Nobody tells you how hard it is to rewire your brain so you can allow amazing things to happen to you after so much trauma or hurt. Blessings exist, good people exist, a softer life exists. Let it happen.
I walked into Target and heard a husband tell his wife “okay you have a $200 spending limit, I won’t rush you, and yes we’re getting coffee first before you catch an attitude.”
Lol if my marriage isn’t like this I don’t want it!