the more you know yourself—the more you fall back. the more you keep quiet. the less you feel the need to prove yourself. the less you react. you shade up and keep away from any sort of drama. you protect your energy, really.
Some of y’all need to hear this sooo WHEN YOU GET MARRIED YOUR # 1 IS YOUR WIFE & YOUR CHILDREN. THE FAMILY YOU CREATED. not your mom. Not your dad. Not your sister/brother. The family you chose to created. 👏🏽