I just hate being around people who do not have a high level of emotional intelligence & regulation. It just irks my soul. If you cannot see things outside of yourself & how you’re harming others you’ll never evolve. Intention has nothing to do with impact.
9. Never raise voice in a squabble. Prefer being articulate than loud. Never bend your head down when receiving harsh criticism, it shows you’re insecured and feeling poorly of yourself instead of taking feedback.
Mana sukati lh. P geram juak la mun kita yg kepak2 train pasya ngisik form apa segala kakya sik turun padang. Paloi kerja gia. Bagus ko suruh nama ya dari awal train. Gila
1) just have the damned fight. It's going to happen, at some point. Don't run away from it. Believe that the relationship will come out of it stronger than it ever was because of it.
Instead of saying “anak tu rezeki”, put “anak itu amanah” first.
Bila dah ada mindset “anak tu rezeki”, kita akan pikir “oh anak ramai murah rezeki”.
Cuba pikir “anak tu amanah”. Kita takkan aniaya kebajikan anak sebab tahu tu amanah dari الله. Dari situlah datangnya rezeki.
Before you talk - Consider
Before you pray - Believe
Before you speak - Listen
Before you spend - Earn
Before you react - Think
Before you play - Work
Before you laugh - Cry
Before you take - Give
Before you run- Walk
Before you quit - Try
Before you die - Live
Kanak-kanak yang belum baligh, apabila merosakkan harta, dia tidak berdosa. Tetapi penjaga WAJIB memberikan ganti rugi kepada pemilik harta.
Penjaga berdosa mengabaikan tanggungjawab menggantikan kerosakan harta & ia adalah kezaliman.
Ibu bapa harus cakna hukum ini.
Buat PhD/masters mmg kena ada pengorbanan. Mesti. Kenduri tk pi. Sambut birthday sedara-mara tk dpt. Ke surau pun jarang kdg tu. Aspek sosial ni kena pandai bahagi masa. Sambut birthday anak buah yg berumur sethn, tak payah pergi tk apa. Kirim hadiah & video call saja ya.
@Idzerqq1 Some parents think their kids are always right.
Nope parents, even we as adults keep making mistakes, what more the kids who know nothing?
When kids are wrong, let them learn the lesson. Stop protecting them unnecessarily.
Sabr is not easy. It drains you mentally and physically. It leaves you on edge. It breaks you down, But you know what Allah said? “I am with the patient” Allah is with you. This should be enough to keep you going.