caraku menyelamatkan diriku adalah dengan menerima bahwa aku jg bisa salah, bisa jahat, bisa nyebelin. I accept that I can be villain too in someone else's story. Abis itu lebih tenang, bodoamat, dan fokus.
Kayanya emang orang-orang harus siap mengakui bahwa:
1. Love needs a lot of maintenance and taking care of
2. Acknowledge (kindly) that you are not capable of doing it
Kebanyakan dari kita gamau mengakui hal tersebut dan it's either blaming on the situation, or on us
Sakit sih
dating itu privilege. bukan cuma soal uang, tapi waktu, tenaga & emotional capacity. you have to make room for someone in your life, krn their baggage becomes my baggage as well. it’s more than just liking someone and not everyone ready for that
Meskipun gw most of the time chill dan very considerate, over the years gw baru menyadari kalo gw ngga begitu pemaaf dan bisa menyimpan resentment bertahun-tahun...