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[sydd @syddkingg]

Not being with someone until you’re healed and ready is so important

[ً @artfuIchaos]

the potential you see in other people isn’t real. it is a projection of what you would do in their position.

[VEEZE @CbfwVeeze]

balling wit yo lady is so playa to me

[ً @artfuIchaos]

I’m a lover and a leaver, and my final act of love is leaving you alone forever.

[josh @joshypooper]

daily conversations with the ex

[miia @miiagarro]

you’re in his DMs

i have him blocked

you will understand in time

[🪞 @allldiamonds]

gonna smoke and then go to bed early and high wow being 27 can be so cool

[erika @yeeeerika]

for the first time in my life, i love myself more than anyone else. there's no room for self-abandonment or neglect anymore. the tides change, and so do i.

[ً @artfuIchaos]

true intimacy is when someone understands the walls you built for your own protection and approaches them with patience instead of pressure.

[fàgó @Fago9ere]

Getting fly just to go eat, drink, and laugh with the loml is my idea of a good time

[ACE @RealAce404]

I like to talk things out, I love clarity. I'm an adult, communicate.

[🕷️ @rtzvv]

i’ve been thinking a lot recently and let’s just say i am NOT thrilled with any of the thoughts my brain has formed so far

[Max The Airbnb Guy🏡 @Maxtheairbnbguy]

You have to learn the person you love.

You cannot love someone into being who you need them to be. You cannot assume you know them just because you feel deeply for them. You have to study them. You have to understand their personality, their wounds, their attachment style, their triggers, their unspoken fears, their love language, the way they process pain and joy and conflict. I learned this the hard way, by loving people I never truly took the time to know. I projected my own expectations onto them. I assumed they thought like me, needed like me, loved like me. And when they did not meet my unspoken expectations, I blamed them instead of realizing that I never actually learned who they were. That lesson cost me relationships. It cost me misunderstandings that could have been avoided. It cost me the pain of being in love with a version of someone that never really existed. But it also taught me that love is not just a feeling. It is a study. It is a commitment to truly knowing the person you claim to love. Not the idea of them. Not the potential of them. But the real, complex, flawed, beautiful human being standing in front of you. And once you learn them, you can truly love them. Not as a projection. But as a person.

[babygirl @hoemie_]

you know sometimes i think we enter relationships bc we have this idea that just bc you feel something for someone it should end in commitment. sometimes just love that person and have fun and be over without ever becoming their bf/gf. it’s allowed btw.

[sydd @syddkingg]

#NewProfilePic

[ً @artfuIchaos]

people will literally be mad at you for being right about them. like I’m sorry I figured out that you’re a piece of shit.

[valentine @valawakened]

Normalize being completely, hopelessly obsessed with your partner. Be soft. Be extra. Love them loudly and without embarrassment.

[aether @bluewdrift]

In order to become a better person, you must first realize how horrible you really are. Not in the dramatic sense, but in the quiet ways you sabotage yourself, repeat unhealthy patterns, hurt people who care about you, or tolerate what wounds you. You cannot grow if you keep pretending you're innocent in the story you've created.

[𝙤𝙡𝙞𝙫𝙚𝙧★ @olivvrszn]

a lot of us were placed into people lives to show them what real genuine unconditional love is and for them to truly grasp that, they gotta lose you.