As a woman I am extremely aware the only reason I have rights is because women before me got mouthy, organized, and made herself inconvenient. Thats why I see women who uphold the patriarchy as traitors
Being disliked by people with ugly spirits is protection. I have no desire to be connected to people who operate from jealousy, wickedness, negativity, entitlement, manipulation, or a lack of integrity. Life is spiritual. Not every heart is safe to stay connected to.✍️
I think women need to be more comfortable with being mischaracterized. A common tactic in these conversations is weaponizing female social behavior to enforce compliance. Pay attention to how this plays out in conversations about women’s sexual boundaries.
Highly selective people are not antisocial. They're discerning. They can notice social masks, forced conversations, and performative friendships. Their bar for clarity and honesty is so high that they subtract themselves from anything that doesn't meet their standards.