@hipntsngomil@feeisgoingcrazy but my point is telling someone in active addiction 'hopefully this was your wake up call' isnt as motivating as people think it is, fear alone rarely gets people sober, reminding them theyre destroying themselves just adds more shame
@hipntsngomil@feeisgoingcrazy people in active addiction dont need guilt disguised as motivation, addiction isnt cured by a 'wake up call', what you say comes across as blame rather than support