fuck i wish i could conjure the spirit of freud & be his messenger for the most batshit takes on the current state of sociopolitical affairs.
“GCs never left the genital stage that’s why they’re so obsessed with dick & balls” thank you ghost of freud
i can’t stress enough that “honfidence” is infinitely more rewarding than repression. sure it’s risky, people can and do live fulfilling lives while visibly trans even in places that aren’t so progressive. you’re a trаnnу and your worst fear is being seen as a trаnnу? girl get up
the truth is that if you:
1- start HRT
2- allow yourself to embrace the internal journey of growth through self discovery
3- seek only to compare yourself to the past self you were decidedly uncomfortable with
you will find a happiness you can make peace with
@miss_quark@nbIvy1985@icedcoco_4 skin to skin contact is crucial, yes, but the rest? in the current day & age, they’re optional. plenty of fathers are the first people to hold a fresh babe, and they turn out perfectly fine. there are people who donate their breastmilk too, so you can outsource those nutrients👍
@unrulymeowmeow@torturebyrosesz it’s more of an awl tbh, has to go through bone so it has to be sturdy.
btw wouldn’t not hiding your ffs stitches make you clocky what would the point of ffs even be if you’re just gonna be lazy like that
@miss_quark@nbIvy1985@icedcoco_4 if you actually WANT to be a parent, that already puts you leagues above a whole lot of people who just happen to be parents.
all that matters is that a baby gets loved, emotional needs play a far greater role than people expect!
@AbhorrentRoach@icedcoco_4 exactly. two loving willing caring parents of whatever age gender race etc. is better than no parents, or two scummy parents.