Overextending yourself for people and making their emergencies your own emergency doesn't get you more loved, it's gets you more used. Trust me they'd be fine without you. being kind is powerful. Being kind without boundaries is exhausting.
Was playing smash bros with my godson and his Dad tells him if he gets one stock off me then he doesn’t have to eat his vegetables. Slim I cooked him so bad he started crying, this is what I do this for. This is why I love the game. Gon head and eat them veggies son