TO WHOM IT MAY CONCERN,
If you can, AV0ID these countries.Belarus 🇧🇾 Moldova 🇲🇩 Cyprus 🇨🇾 Armenia 🇦🇲 kosovo 🇽🇰 Pakistan 🇵🇰 India 🇮🇳 Bangladesh 🇧🇩 Sri Lanka 🇱🇰 Laos 🇱🇦 Malaysia 🇲🇾 Indonesia 🇮🇩 Vietnam 🇻🇳 Cambodia 🇰🇭 Philippines 🇵🇭 South Africa 🇿🇦 Oman 🇴🇲 Kuwait 🇴🇲 Qatar 🇶🇦.
Tajikistan 🇹🇯 Kyrgyzstan 🇰🇬,Uzbekistan, Turkmenistan 🇹🇲,Nepal 🇳🇵 Thailand
🇹🇭 Albania 🇦🇱 Cyprus 🇨🇾 Armenia 🇦🇲.
Belize 🇧🇿, Honduras 🇭🇳 Barbados 🇧🇧 Dominican Republic, Trinidad 🇹🇹 and Tobago, Aruba 🇦🇼 saint kitts 🇰🇳 Jamaica 🇯🇲, Nicaragua 🇳🇮 el Salvador Argentina 🇦🇷 Chile 🇨🇱 Colombia 🇨🇴 Guyana 🇬🇾 Paraguay 🇵🇾 Uruguay 🇺🇾.
Brazil 🇧🇷 is just for the document.
Venezuela 🇻🇪 etc.
Palau 🇵🇼 nauru 🇳🇷 Tonga 🇹🇴 Fiji 🇫🇯 Solomon island 🇸🇧 paupa new Guinea 🇵🇬 ( PNG) u can never cross to Australia 🇦🇺 from these countries.
NOTE I am not saying that people are not making it but how many percent and what are they doing over there.
Best wishes always!
As a man,
1. Smile less. A calm, closed mouth smile carries more authority than forced friendliness.
2. Announce nothing. People respect outcomes, not intentions.
3. Read real books in public. It silently intimidates people who scroll.
4. Nod instead of agreeing. Approval should feel earned, not automatic.
5. Stop narrating your life. Mystery beats oversharing every time.
6. Be hard to reach. Access is value.
7. Shake hands like you mean it. Weak grips signal weak presence.
8. Stop checking your phone during conversations; it signals you value your notifications more than them.
9. Always be punctual; wasting another person's time is a subtle form of arrogance.
10. Return what you borrowed in better condition; it shows respect for both the item and the owner.
11. Listen to understand, not to reply; people instantly recognize when you're just waiting to talk.
12.Walk slow.
13. Never resist eye contact
14. Don't shake your legs.
15. Laugh less.
16. Show gratitude.
17. Stand up for a handshake.
18. Keep your chin still when you talk.
19. Keep your shoulders back at all times.
What did i miss?
20 MARRIED SEX Facts and Stats ... (a thread)
1 - Most married couples have sex a little over 5 times per month.
2 - Married women are more than twice as likely to have an orgasm as unmarried women.
3 - In 1 out of 4 marriages the wife has the higher sex-drive than the husband.
4 - Roughly 20% of married couples fall into the “sexless marriage” category; defined as having sex less than 10 times per year. Which is totally fine as long as BOTH partners are okay with this. If one is not, that's not healthy.
5 - According to statistics, 75% of married women orgasm during sex. AND many married women don't measure sexual success by orgasms, (but it's definitely very important). Meaning women often still feel connected to their husband, and satisfied, when not achieving an orgasm every time.
6 - The length of a men’s orgasm is roughly 8 seconds long whereas a woman’s orgasm is on average, 20 seconds!
7 - The main goal of sex in marriage should be two fold: 1) To please each other, not seek self-satisfaction first. 2) Re-connection as husband and wife.
8 - God created a woman’s clitoris with 8000 nerve endings .... and its ONLY function is to bring pleasure. Married sex is obviously to be enjoyed for more than just procreation.
9 - Two of the biggest enemies of married sex are busyness and tiredness. So if you're struggling with sexual intimacy, maybe slow down and make it a priority.
10 - Statistically the couples with the best sex-lives are the couples willing to talk about it with one another.
11 - IMPORTANT: How often should a married couple have sex? As often as they both mutually agree to. Whether it’s 5 times a a week, 5 times a month, or 5 times a year, it should be mutual agreement. Neither the higher-drive spouse nor the lower sex-drive should NOT be the one that sets the amount of times when it comes to frequency.
12 - COMPLAINTS: Top complaint from MARRIED WOMEN when it comes to sex? They want their husband to pursue them in other ways than just sexually. Meaning, they don't want to feel like the only time their husband wants them is sexually. Top compliant from MARRIED MEN when it comes to sex? They’d like their wife to initiate more often so they don’t feel like they’re begging. Nothing is worse than feeling like you're begging all the time.
13 - Most husbands feel very emotionally connected to their wife when they have sex with them. Most wives NEED to feel very emotionally connected to their husbands to want to have sex with them. Don't judge your spouse for being wired up different, try to see it from their vantage point and meet their needs their way.
14 - Married sex isn't just about having an orgasm. It's designed to connect and reconnect two people into one ... over and over. Married sex was created to be the purest form of intimacy ... where you touch one another physically, emotionally and spiritually. In fact, it's so good for your marriage, you should probably be having more of it.
15 - God created married sex for SO many reasons ...
* procreation.
* pleasure
* oneness
* comfort
* bonding
* intimate knowledge of one another
* connecting AND re-connecting with one another.
16 - Did you know that every time you have sex with your spouse, oxytocin is released into your bodies. Oxytocin is a hormone and neurotransmitter known as the "love hormone" or "cuddle hormone," produced in the hypothalamus and released by the pituitary gland, crucial for social bonding, trust, and attachment. Oxytocin is an incredible gift that connects you to your spouse. That's why many say sex is a glue in your marriage!
17 - Of course anyone can have sex; it only requires a few body parts. But making love requires intimacy, commitment and a deep loving relationship. Marriage and making love will always require more work, but it's definitely so much better! The world makes sex common, God made sex to be special.
18 - We believe if there is anything physical, mental or emotional keeping you from you from having your best sex life in your marriage, you need to see a doctor. They can help with so many things someone might be having issues with.
19 - Of course intimacy is not just experienced through sex. It's found in talking, spending time together, doing spiritual things together, and so on. All areas of intimacy are important.
20 - You made it to #20? We are impressed. Consider reposting this or saving this for later info.
And, if you're ever in an area where we're doing one of our workshops, we talk about all these things on a much deeper scale in our workshops. Join us sometime.
Trey & Lea
TO WHOM IT MAY IT CONCERN,
10 Japa options to consider in 2026.
2026 is here, so what are your Japa plans. Incase you have no clue, here are some options to consider.
Here we go.
1. Scholarships: There are more than 130 open fully paid scholarship available for 2026. If you don't have funds, and you have a good grade (2.1 and First Class), what are you waiting for?
2. Visit visa to Seasonal Employer Work Visa: this is specific to New Zealand. New Zealand is one Top A country that allows you to convert your visit visa to other visa types that enable you to work. Don't sleep on it.
3. Internships: There are more than 95 fully funded internships currently available for 2026. Don't let this one pass you by. It is to top countries like Belgium, Switzerland, Italy etc.
4. 10 million study abroad options: With 10 million there are several countries you can Japa to in 2026, provided you have your PoF sorted. From Schengen countries to several in Asia including South Korea and Japan.
5. Direct Work Visa via Job search: Job search is the best way to Japa. It is the most tasking yet very rewarding. There are a number of countries including New Zealand, Australia and the likes that allow Job search pathway. Use it to your advantage.
6. 2 years Japa to re-Japa Top C countries: You should consider this if you don't lots of money and you are alright working in Gulf countries for at least 2 years on a work visa to Japa to a Top country. Not the most ideal but it is one of the options.
7. Study route: There are several countries that will always be appealing for study route. This include New Zealand, Canada, Australia, Ireland and a number of Schengen countries. The major caveat is that you must have your finances set. The UK is still a good option if you don't mind the immigration changes set to roll out shortly.
8. Permanent Residency option: Many Top A countries are still giving PR albeit in tighter conditions. If you are in Health or in any of the in-demand occupations, seek PR in Canada, New Zealand, Australia and in other Top A countries. Start early.
9. Exceptional Talent Visas/Innovation Visa: Many qualify for this based on their experience and qualifications but they are oblivious of its working. Don't sleep on this ik 2026.
10. Fully paid Conference option: For many seeking to Japa for the first time in their life and for free, aim for fully funded conferences this year. It will open for students and graduates including participants. I will post lots of it on my wall this year.
I will post part 2 in another post.
2026 is our YEAR. keep a tab on this page!!!!!!!
Before you japa in 2026, confirm the PR pathway for each country:
1. Canada – Study Permit → Post-Grad Work Permit → Express Entry / PNP → PR (≈ 3–5 years total)
2. UK – Skilled Worker Visa → Indefinite Leave to Remain (ILR) after 5 years → Citizenship (6+ years total)
3. New Zealand – Student Visa → Post-Study Work Visa → Skilled Migrant / Work to Residence → PR (≈ 3–5 years)
4. Austria – Red-White-Red Card → Red-White-Red Plus → Permanent Residence after 5 years
5. Sweden – Student Visa → Work Permit → Permanent Residence after 4–7 years of work residence
6. Germany – Student Visa → EU Blue Card / Work Visa → Permanent Residence after 21–33 months (Blue Card) or 5 years (standard)
7. France – Student Visa → Work Permit → Carte de Résident (10-year PR) after 5 years residence
8. Italy – Student Visa → Work Permit → EU Long-Term Residence Permit after 5 years
9. Spain – Student Visa → Work Permit / Highly-Skilled → Long-Term EU Residence after 5 years
10. Portugal – Student Visa → Work Permit / D-type Residence Visa → Permanent Residence after 5 years
11. Netherlands – Student Visa → Orientation Year Visa → Highly-Skilled Migrant Visa → Permanent Residence after 5 years
12. Finland – Student Residence Permit → Work Residence Permit → Permanent Residence after 4 years of continuous residence
13. Norway – Student Permit → Skilled Worker Visa → Permanent Residence after 3 years
14. Switzerland – Work Permit B → Settlement Permit C after 5–10 years (depends on nationality & canton)
15. Lithuania – Student Visa → Temporary Residence Permit → Long-Term Residence after 5 years
16. Bulgaria – Student Visa → Work & Residence Permit → Long-Term EU Residence after 5 years
17. Iceland – Work Permit (Qualified Professionals) → Permanent Residence after 4 years
18. Japan – Highly Skilled Professional Visa → PR after 1–5 years (points-based), standard route ≈ 10 years
19. Russia – Work Permit / Highly-Qualified Specialist → Temporary Residence Permit → Permanent Residence after 1–2+ years
For further assistance, you can book consultation with me and my team on WhatsApp:
+447398824533, +2348039266453.
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Let's start 2026 like this:
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I remember a divorce case I handled some years ago.
The Respondent, the wife, blatantly refused to show up in court or engage a lawyer; and the judge wasn’t ready to proceed without her.
One day in court, the judge, again, refused to proceed with the matter without the woman. That we must meet with her and hold the statutory conference before she will hear the matter. I told the judge we have served her the petition and the hearing notice for today’s sitting and clearly she is not interested in defending the petition, so, we should proceed in the interest of justice.
The judge come vex for me o. That I should do more than that. I should get her number, call her and try to see her and hold a meeting with both of them and try to settle them. E come be like say na me wan scatter their marriage.
The judge asked the petitioner, my client, if he doesn’t want settlement, he said no. He was visibly angry, talking about how he just wants a divorce immediately and nothing else. That they are still living together and that he is just waiting for the divorce to leave the house or kick the woman out.
Judge says I should still meet with both of them. Everybody knows that this is the point you must shout “As the Court pleases” to avoid wahala.
After court I collected the Respondent’s phone number from my client and called her immediately. I requested to meet with her and invited her to come to my office. Madam said she is not coming anywhere, that if I want to meet with her, my client should bring me to their house.
I went back to the office after agreeing with my client that I will come over to his house after the close of work that same day.
I went to their house by 5pm. We sat down and started talking about the issue. Then I got a bombshell.
She: Did your client tell you that he is serious about that divorce?
Me: Yes. We are in court already. He even told the judge so this morning in court. He is here now, he can tell you himself.
She: Serious about which divorce? Is it not that court he came back from this afternoon and came and collect one doggy?
I was totally flabbergasted. I didn’t expect that kind of raw bluntness from her. I turned to my client, he was silent and avoiding my eyes.
Doggy? I carried my file quietly, entered my car and left.
Like doggy? After all that heat I faced in court, you even stood there, forming anger, then you came back and collect hot doggy in the afternoon?
What do you take lawyers for in this country? Doggy? You couldn’t even do missionary in appreciation of the lashing that judge gave me because of your divorce case, you went and did doggy. Doggy that use to sweet like wetin. 😭
Mr *Evaritus Gregory. Sir, though it is 4 years now, but I still remember. I know you will read this. I know you will laugh... from the bottom of my heart, sir, thunder fire you. 😭
Not real name
- By First Baba Isa (FBI), LLM, MBA, FIMC, CMC.