No. You can be angry at someone for making the decision that was best for them, especially when you are the one left carrying its cost.
Their right to choose does not cancel your right to feel hurt.
What you cannot assume is that your pain makes their decision wrong. Sometimes no one is the villain, yet someone still leaves wounded.
This is what I have lined up for October (In sha Allah):
Ibn Hazm, The Ring of the Dove
Neil Postman, Amusing Ourselves to Death
Kazuo Ishiguro, The Remains of the Day
Albert Camus, The Fall
Daniel Yergin, The New Map
Viktor Frankl, Man’s Search for Meaning) re read)
Robert Sapolsky, Behave
Anton Chekhov, Selected Stories
Erich Fromm, The Art of Loving
Leo Tolstoy, The Death of Ivan Ilyich
See a glaring investment gap.
Imagine going all the way to Ibadan to source something as fragile as a day old chick (if you're not flying it's hardly a day old by the time it gets to you)
But it's a regional airline that is needed.
Da hotel da Plaza
So people from borno get supply of day old chicks from ibadan meanwhile the northeast states are planning to create a ₦10b regional airline... One state with one of the highest poverty rate in the country built a ₦21b airport... Another one is spending ₦billions on mass weddings
If there was money in academia you won't see me in white corporate.
Academia is where I'm at the peak of my gifts, every single bit of it. I still believe it's the sphere I can contribute to society the most.
Maybe sometimes later if fulus/time is no longer a determinant and I'm blessed with a healthful long life. I can actually do it for free.
The happiest I have ever been while at "work" was in a classroom. I was always unhappy when class is rounding up.
It's too bad that happiness cannot pay bills 🫠
I’m at the age where indulging negative energy has to present a compelling benefit case.
Even when I am right, once I calculate the time, mood and blood pressure involved, omo, you are right please.
Doing livestock farming as an intensive business (rather than seasonal/or a hobby) is nicely pushing me out of my comfort zone and I'm enjoying the growth it is giving to my person.
I should probably journal all my experiences on @greenpriseffl article sections. 😅