This is what seems to confuse some Nigerians 🇳🇬 and Ghanaians 🇬🇭. They don’t understand how South Africans can coexist with, and even enjoy being around white people. To some, it seems like we should still be consumed by hatred.
I always tell people that South Africans are remarkably resilient, forgiving, and focused on moving forward. Every country has its own painful history and its own divisions. For example, tensions between some Igbos and some Fulanis are rooted in historical conflicts that continue to shape people’s views.
At some point, though, we have to choose whether we let the past define our future. Forgiveness doesn’t mean forgetting,it means refusing to let hate control your life. Life is too short. Let’s heal, move on, and build a better future together.