Some of us are once in a lifetime type energies. You'll never have another experience of this magnitude again. There's no upgrade after us. Only lessons and settling.
Yes, your mom sacrificed a lot for you.. Thatβs what she was supposed to do.
I think a lot of people feel guilty for that and overcompensate. Then try to make their mother happy at all times.
It was your dadβs job to help her. Not yours.
@Theholisticpsyc I'm really curious on your thoughts about ADHD being misunderstood as trauma? I have adhd and trauma, and these physical symptoms are very in line with nuerodivergent traits. Do you have any opinions on this you can share? You're amazing and I'm so grateful for you π