@mistressninamar Yeah, it takes a while to develop that kind of "spidey sense". Unfortunately, it's not fool proof and I've had to learn from some mistakes.
As a masochist, I can appreciate a good gaslighting. But when the orange man does it, it's just too transparent and divorced from reality to land. Zero stars.
Now the dressing down that Harris gave him... That did something for me. Highly recommend.
@LucySweetkill Have tried. Experience was "ouch". I think this is one of those implements that Domme's often have a special affinity towards. I'm a masochist but, for me, shaft pain is hard to resonate with.