this was so incredible, i love how she said that being like catnip is much about embodying your eroticism in ways that bring all of your senses to life. it has a lot to with aliveness, succulence, juiciness. the pizazz of walking in with your shoulders arched back, festivity (joie de vivre), enjoying all of life’s sensual sensory pleasures with unsuppressed hunger and curiosity. you become incredibly seductive when you burst with joy for life, because that joy is generative for you.
erotic wholeness empowers every aspect of a woman’s life, especially creativity and the charge of life-force. you need to learn how to be easily orgasmic, easily indulgent, ready for receiving pleasure in every capacity, because that is a source of your power, and it’s infinitely regenerative.
i also loved it when she said that a good reason for studying the goddesses, the mythical women of deep history, is because you get to see female sexuality unmediated by civilization. you see female hyper-sexuality without any patriarchal suppression, in its rawest purest form, and the tendency is for women’s sexual expression to be completely uncurbed and feral.
happy father’s day! one time my therapist told my dad i needed more positive validation from him so he just texted me “Validation” in the middle of the day