If you buy me lunch I’m buying you lunch , you get me some for my birthday I’m getting you some, you show up for me I’m there for u ! No I don’t count favors I just treat ppl how they treat me.
I think the purest form of love is just wanting someone to experience life with you. "Taste this. Look at that. Hear this song." Over and over. Until you can't imagine experiencing life without them.
It should come NATURALLY for a man to want to have fun with you, take you out , feed you and do nice things for you. You should never have to teach someone to do that.