pretending to be clueless to people's shady behavior has honestly saved me so much drama in life. no reaction, no acknowledgement, just keep it pushing lol
@Discovery_SA@Vitality_SA why are my points for the races I ran on the 10th and 24th not reflecting, I captured the result and uploaded the certificates. Where is my play?
Growing up is realizing that alot of people actively try and put you in a box because they can only see and think from a labeled/limited perspective. Adulting is constantly fighting off projections and reminding people that you control your own narrative, not them.
Knowing where you stand in people's lives saves you a lot of time and preserves misplaced energy, allowing you to redirect your energy into people and circumstances that are in alignment with you.
MENTAL HEALTH ACCOMPLISHMENTS THAT GO UNNOTICED:
1. Knowing Forgiveness is never needed to heal
2. Learning to spot users, abusers & manipulators is more important then letting the good people in
3. Everything changes for the better when you stop letting people get away with stuff
4. Understand predators seek out prey
5. Saying no gets you respect & power
6. Not giving in to manipulators is a superpower
My list isn't the most popular opinions but the ones I needed to Learn the most:)
One day you going to meet someone who won’t find it difficult to love you. Someone who will pour into you as much as you pour into them. You going to feel how it’s like to bare your soul and completely feel at peace, protected and secured in their presence, when you do,don’t ever