Life is not a group assignment where everyone gets the same points measured on a standardized yardstick. Live on your own terms, serve whatever/whoever speaks to your core, be anchored to causes that matters to you most. When your time is up, that's just it, nobody can extend it.
@TriciaNampa I was that guy, but then I thought it can't be the new order. Hosted my neighbors for a Covid braai weeks back, now even my driveway is well looked after😜