I'm at the point of my life where as long as I know I did right by you, I don't mind walking away when it don't work... family, friends, lovers, anybody!
The quickest way to lose me is to make me feel like I don’t matter. I don’t expect perfection from anybody, but I do pay attention to effort, consistency, and how people treat me over time. Once I start noticing that I’m always the one reaching out, always the one understanding, or always the one showing up, I take a step back. I don’t beg people to value me and I don’t compete for a place in anybody’s life. If somebody shows me where I stand, I believe it. And once I accept that, I move accordingly. Some things don’t need an argument, they just need distance.
I'd rather cut you off completely than have to limit the way I fuck with you. lan never been a half ass lover or friend so that's just some shit I won't accept
Breakups hurt, yeah. But you know what hurts even more? Staying. Staying and trying to “make it work” with someone who has shown you over and over that they don’t value you, don’t prioritize you, and don’t care about your feelings. Begging for bare minimum. Hoping they’ll change. Ignoring the proof right in front of you. That kind of pain drags out way longer than a breakup ever could. Sometimes the real heartbreak isn’t losing them it’s realizing you stayed too long trying to convince someone to love you the right way. THAT’S what really hurts.
If I cut you off, your success later won’t make me regret it. Good for you, truly. But becoming rich, popular, married, fit, or “blessed” does not rewrite how you treated people when your character was on trial. I can respect your growth from a distance and still remember why access was revoked. Success can change your status, but it doesn’t automatically clean your history.