Be honest, your values transform as you progress. If you allow yourself to be informed by the reality manifesting itself, as you struggle forward, your notions of what is important will change. You will reorient yourself, sometimes gradually, and sometimes suddenly and radically.
An aim defines progress and makes such progress exciting. An aim reduces anxiety, because if you have no aim everything can mean anything or nothing, and neither of those two options makes for a tranquil spirit
โDid what I want happen? No. Then my aim or my methods were wrong. I still have something to learn.โ That is the voice of authenticity. โDid what I want happen? No. Then the world is unfair. People are jealous and too stupid to understand. That is the voice of inauthenticity