when you have an ed apparently you have to quit your job and your life-affirming hobbies to lock yourself inside your house otherwise you're promoting the illness
the internet has actually convinced themselves that ariana’s fans are the problem
we never claimed she is healthy, we don’t know ourselves. we just know better than harassing her online everyday
we can’t help. only her friends/family can. your horrible comments achieve nothing
alright. let’s say ariana came onto social media tomorrow and said, “you were all correct. i do infact have an eating disorder.” then what? what exactly do people think their job is after that? she’s a global celebrity, not someone’s fucking neighbour. she has family. friends. a management team. a record label. doctors. people who ACTUALLY know her. fans are consumers. they are observers. they are not her treatment team, and acting as though it’s the internet’s responsibility to diagnose and manage the health of a woman they’ve never met and know nothing about is absolutely absurd.
people keep acting as though posting “she looks like she’s dying” or “she’s way too skinny” is some noble act of awareness, but if she were genuinely suffering from an eating disorder, there’s a very real possibility that this kind of obsessive public scrutiny would be harmful rather than helpful. recovery from an eating disorder isn’t fuelled by millions of strangers analysing your body from every conceivable angle and in MOST cases, having your appearance constantly dissected becomes part of the disorder itself, reinforcing an unhealthy fixation on weight, shape, and external validation.
so please, enlighten me, what is actually being achieved by turning “is ariana grande too skinny?” into a weekly trending topic? IF the concern is sincere (and i really truly doubt it is), saying it once is enough. after that, it stops reading as concern and starts reading as malice. there is a difference between expressing concern and endlessly consuming someone’s body as a topic of entertainment. i am so fucking sick to death of strangers on the internet who are convinced they have both the authority and the obligation to comment on a woman’s body every single day. THIS IS NOT ADVOCACY.
“even if you are coming from a loving and caring place, that person is probably working on it, or has a support system that they are working on it with.” this part of the video almost never gets mentioned but it’s so important. none of us know anything, leave her alone already
i understand why people find this revolting but the reality is eating disorders make you do revolting things and it’s nice to hear a man talk openly about having one
Call me crazy, but I do not support the $12 billion bailout for the farmers who overwhelmingly voted for their own demise. Pull yourselves up by your bootstraps and stop leeching off our taxpayer dollars.
If 3 Black people took a White man on a boat expedition and didn’t return with him the president would be making a speech right now.
Rest in power Nolan Wells
Love Island UK is about the general public’s inability to handle a baddie when actually confronted with one and Love Island US is about the power of female friendship in the face of domestic terrorism
aniyas clip: "yeah i'm ready to put myself first. i owe it to myself"
kc's clip: "yeah me and aniya have nothing in common. shes a fucking grandma. we never do shit"
“you wanted him, but he didn’t feel wanted by any of us so he didn’t feel wanted? that doesn’t makes any sense” JEN COME GET YOUR 10s she clocked kc! 😭😭