thelastofus

laid back.easy going.. mental health advocate. horror is my thing. true crime buff and anything related. love metal 🤘 sleep token, bad omens...

[thelastofus @taylorjay194]

@bria_110 Any are fine by me 😊

[thelastofus @taylorjay194]

@alexaftrll Fit!

[thelastofus @taylorjay194]

Same

[Words @itswords_]

My relationship status:

〇 in a relationship
〇 single
〇 situationship
⬤ Not even bothering anymore. Done.

[thelastofus @taylorjay194]

@TinyTattedMama3 @Mizzle0831 😂😂😂

[thelastofus @taylorjay194]

@TinyTattedMama3 Omg yes...I've been through that much that I'm pretty much calm in every situation and it fully does wind them up more because they want that reaction...na not from me mate. You get red in the face and I'll be here with a BPM of 58 😂😂

[thelastofus @taylorjay194]

@EnchantedRae24 Stunning 😍

[thelastofus @taylorjay194]

@TinyTattedMama3 That's probably because you are. Always will be. 😍

[thelastofus @taylorjay194]

@Meganfiinch Where can I apply? Absolutely stunning 😍

[thelastofus @taylorjay194]

@sweetmuffinxox Whoever has the pleasure of dating you is one of the luckiest men/women on the planet! Absolutely stunning and a figure to die for 😍

[thelastofus @taylorjay194]

@TinyTattedMama3 Best attitude to have imo. 😊

[thelastofus @taylorjay194]

@EnchantedRae24 You fully melt my heart with your beauty 😍 I hope you are well 😊

[k @alfkkifine]

One of the most brutal realities of the male experience that nobody talks about is the absolute "affection desert" they live in. A woman can get a hug, a genuine compliment, and deep emotional support from her platonic friends on a random Tuesday. A man can go an entire calendar year without another human being touching his arm, asking if he's okay, or giving him a sincere compliment. We’ve built a society where a man only gets to experience basic human warmth if he is actively providing for a partner. Outside of that, he is completely invisible.

[𝕵𝖊𝖓𝖓✨ @jennloveshorror]

People who love the moon are my type of people 🌙 ✨ 🖤

[thelastofus @taylorjay194]

Damn straight we will.

[Ayo 💗💐 @ayolovesblue]

Introvert guys will fvck the hell out of you

[thelastofus @taylorjay194]

@ksnapill Ohhh myyyy dayssss! What an amazing pair 😍

[thelastofus @taylorjay194]

I fully felt this. It's been my life for the last 4 years.

[Asanwa.sol @Chizitere_xyz]

We have a guy at my firm. Let’s call him David. David is a senior manager, always the first to crack a joke, buys the team lunch on Fridays, and dresses impeccably. A true "stand-up guy" who seems to have his entire life figured out.

But nobody knew that for the past 8 months, David has been going home to a completely empty 1-bedroom apartment, sleeping on a single mattress on the floor. His colleagues just assume his family relocated abroad. The truth? Family court stripped him of everything.
He spent 12 years breaking his back to build a beautiful home for his wife and two daughters. When the marriage crashed, the court ordered him out to "maintain stability for the kids." He left with just a suitcase. Now, he pays the rent for that big house, plus their school fees, while struggling to feed himself.

But the money isn't even the worst part. It’s the crippling silence. David went from waking up to his daughters jumping on his bed every morning, to having to negotiate with his ex for a 5-minute WhatsApp video call. He was legally demoted to an "every other weekend" uncle.
Men are carrying mountains of grief and hiding it behind office banter and hanging out with the boys. David sits at the lounge with the guys after work, laughing and buying drinks. But when he drives home, he sits in his parked car for an hour in the dark just to cry before facing his empty apartment.

Society has convinced us that a man's heartbreak over losing his family isn't valid. We expect them to lose their homes, their daily access to their kids, and their peace of mind, and just show up to work on Monday in a suit like nothing happened.
Check on your strong male friends. The system is breaking them in half, and they are bleeding out in absolute silence.

[thelastofus @taylorjay194]

@ElisaBrandani99 I'm sure you'll have plenty of applicants 🫠😍😮 absolutely stunning 💜

[k @alfkkifine]

I want you to truly look at the most heartbreaking hypocrisy of our generation.

When a 30-year-old woman sits in her car, turns on her camera, and cries to the internet because she feels unloved, the world stops to catch her tears. The comment section becomes a fortress of validation.

“You are a Queen.” “Your standards aren't too high; men are just intimidated by your success.” “The dating pool is trash, it is not your fault.” Society rushes in to wrap a warm, protective blanket around her shoulders. Her loneliness is framed as a tragic failure of the world. Her inherent value is never, ever questioned.
But what happens when a man breaks?

What happens when a man finally reaches the absolute end of his rope? I want you to think about the men who are surviving on absolute emotional scraps. The men who haven't felt the warmth of a genuine hug, not a polite bro-tap, but an actual embrace where they felt safe in five, maybe ten years. The men who remember a compliment a cashier gave them in 2018 because it was the last time someone looked at them like they mattered.

If that man gathers the impossible, agonizing courage to whisper to the world, “I am so incredibly lonely. I just want to be loved,” what does society do?

The second a man admits he is unwanted, society does not see a broken human being in need of grace; society sees a Public Threat.

We don't ask him who hurt him; we ask him who he is going to hurt.
We instantly strip away his humanity and slap labels on his chest. We call him a "creep." We call him a "weirdo." We brand him a "red flag" or an "incel."

We have built a culture that fundamentally believes that if no woman has chosen a man, he must be dangerously, irredeemably defective. We treat female loneliness as a wound that needs healing, but we treat male loneliness as a Crime that needs to be monitored.

There is this cruelty that pierces a man's soul: He knows he has a good heart. He knows he would move mountains to protect a partner, to provide, to be loyal. But because he might be a little awkward, or introverted, or doesn't have the "rizz" that social media demands, he is treated like a monster in waiting.

He is forced to swallow his grief. He learns to sit in his dark bedroom, suffocating under the weight of touch-starvation, absolutely terrified to ask for help because he knows that the exact people who preach about "mental health" are the very same people who will screenshot his vulnerability and use it to mock him in their group chat

We tell men that their worth isn't tied to their sexual success. Yet, the absolute first insult society throws at a man to destroy his confidence is, "You get no girls." We weaponize his empty bed to prove his life has no value.

To the men reading this who feel invisible: Your loneliness does not make you a monster. Your desire for love does not make you a creep. You are living in a society that has hoarded all of its empathy for women, leaving you to freeze in the cold. It is a profound, societal failure that your desire for basic human warmth is treated as a symptom of madness, rather than a symptom of simply being human.

[thelastofus @taylorjay194]

@spookymama_666 Siren

[Sameer @oosafarnama]

Live alone. Chill alone. Vibe alone. Eat in a restaurant alone. Go for long walks alone. Stare at walls alone. Stare the the stars alone. Journal alone. Reflect on life alone. Think about "who am I?" alone. Connect with yourself alone. Be present in your own life alone.