every time you say “this is new for me” instead of “i’m bad at this,” you allow your brain space to learn instead of shut down. that’s neuroplasticity in real time.
“I feel sorry for the husband” this woman just sacrificed her body to have their child, ended up with a condition because of the pregnancy and all people think of is her man staying faithful..
Vocal men are top tier. Imagine telling you how much they love you, point out your wrong doings in a nice tone, never invalidate your feelings, communicate with you when you hurt them, and telling how worthy you are and how much you mean to them.