it's not "girls support girls" it's "girls PROTECT girls" because i could hate a girl with my whole being but i would never NEVER leave her alone in a room with a man she feels unsafe with
I've stopped being friends with a lot of people over the last 2 years and it came down to asking myself “do I like who I am around them?” and "do I like how I feel once I leave them?"
and it changed everything.
Okay, I lied. I like flowers i don't have to ask for. I like dates that I don't have to plan. I like reassurance, love letters, notes, long texts and updates. I like photos of us on your social accounts, repost about me. i like acts of services, physical touch, quality time and small surprises. I like being LOVED LOUDLY
please stop calling people sensitive as an insult just because you don't have the emotional intelligence to understand things on a deeper level. this world needs sensitive people, empathy is a good trait to have.
The older you get the more you'll realize that everything really is that deep. The people you confide in, trust, date, become friends with, the opportunities you take. What you watch & listen to. What you eat & even what you consume mentally, emotionally, & spiritually.
A cheating boyfriend becomes a cheating husband. If he’s not a good boyfriend, he won’t be a good husband. Marriage doesn’t fix character, it reveals it more deeply. Pay attention to the patterns, not promises, because the truth always echoes louder with time.
Stop being so considerate in situations where you are not considered. Kindness is a gift, not an obligation. You'll be drained if you keep pouring into people who don't reciprocate. Protect your spirit and well-being. Redirect your warmth toward those who reflect it back to you.
Postpartum itself has been one of the hardest experiences of my life and seeing women just dog other women about speaking on the struggle is so irritating. It is the loneliest and most grueling experience but the love you feel for your child is so worth it