a girl on tiktok said “if you wanted me to speak more highly of you then perhaps you should have treated me better...you don't get to narrate MY story of MY experiences with you". felt that.
I want to marry a calm man, they are so attractive. I love the gentle aura. A man who doesn't yell at me when he's upset, reassures me, a man who handles conflict with maturity, who brings me peace & eases my anxiety. I just want to feel calm, satisfied, happy & safe with him.
Marry a MAN that can't go all day without hearing from you A MAN that knows what communication is, even when y'all mad at each other. A MAN that wont let U go to bed mad at him. A MAN that's absolutely loyal and only wants you. A MAN who will go above & beyond to make you happy.
I pray my husband and I do parenthood so well that our kids always love hanging out with us. Especially as adults. And that they always wanna be affectionate.
I think my issue is im too clingy for this generation. I want to talk to someone all the time. I like talking about my feelings for that person. I like reassurance. I like making them a priority without even knowing where I stand & I get pissed when none of this is reciprocated