Y'all do this thing where you try to place your own parents on pedestals to prove points on here and it simply never makes sense in the end lmfao.
If your parents *really* made sure you saw the word as derogatory, you wouldn't use it now.
you not black first. or a woman first. you’re a black woman. that’s it. your experience with misogyny is unique because of racism. your experience with racism is different because you’re a woman. the term ‘intersectionality’ exists because our experience is so unique.