Q6. "I want to experience other women before I tie myself down with just you," I told my girlfriend of 4 years when she asked if we were going to EVER get married. I meant it. I threw the truth on the floor and expected her to understand where I was coming from. The good morning texts dried up. I popped up to spend some time and there was a different car in the driveway. She refused to open the door. I waited for outside her apartment for hours and her coworker came out. I confronted him and he lifted his shirt to show his glock, 'This ain't what you want boy,' he said, so I left. That coworker has been spending the nights there. I can't get a returned text or call. Let me ask you this, if she threw 4 years away so easy, she was never really there for me at all, right? I need closure and she won't give it to me. What to do? #SBCCHAT
Q3. My fiance (I stole him from my cousin) is home after serving 4 years in prison. Although he's physically here, mentally he's always somewhere else. We were intimate once, and he basically dragged me by my braids and hit me from the back. It was caveman style s3x, nothing like the passionate lovemaking we used to do. I mentioned that I didn't like it and he said next time it would be better. We haven't had s3x since. We were sitting together in the laundromat when a young thug rolled up and shot at him. We escaped. He told me it was an old prison beef. I found out he was graping younger men in prison and that was one of his victims who shot at him. I love him. I'm willing to stand by him and help him through this. He seems to be interested in getting back with my cousin. How do I get him to love me harder? I feel like I'm doing all the work alone. #SBCCHAT
Q1. My wife was a l3sbian in her college days but said that she wanted to start a family with me and chose to leave that life behind. I believed her until she launched her food truck with Mia. Mia does the grunt work (rehabbing the truck, etc.), and my wife handles the cooking and licensing. I was never allowed inside the truck (health code: only operators can enter, my wife told me), but my wife insisted they were making money. The truck was parked in our back yard for repairs and I went out to wash and detail it, just being a good man. I entered the food truck and, SURPRISE! It was their personal s3x bunker, just a bed, microwave and s3 toys and lube everywhere. My wife had been cheating on me with Mia and multiple women in that truck for at least a year. We have 2 small, very disruptive children--if I divorce her I'll have to babysit on weekends or whatever and that's a big NO from me. I need a strategy to look the other way when she cheats without letting jealousy consume me. I can't afford a girlfriend of my own at this time. Any advice you give will be helpful. Thanks. #SBCCHAT
I love my parents so much. I call them after I made my mind up about something and once I get their validation to proceed I feel so much more confident with how I move.
Not that y'all asked, but another reason why groceries may seem so expensive is because your pantries aren't stocked with a variety of items so when you're doing a new recipe you spend an extra $40 on condiments, sauces and spices alone.
India love being a homophobe when I have seen most of her naked body against my will on this app for free is an interesting take. Gay people won’t see heaven but the sex workers must be working the front door.
I also don’t understand why dates are always thought of as something to cater to women and it’s never “fun”. Do you niggas not have hobbies & interest?? Take her fishing ? Build some Lego’s or some shit tf 🤣 I personally love men who have a interest in things I don’t know about
Black women truly spend so much on maintenance n U don’t even realize how crazy it is til you talk to ur nb coworker randomly .. ebony tax when I get my hands on U …
On our birthdays every year my mama tells her birthing story for each kid and hearing the shit she went through birthing five children will always be enough for me to be happy with two.
Please have hobbies in your 30s, so you don’t become overly focused on relationships, other people’s availability, or what’s missing in your life.
Run, dance, read, travel, try new things, make friends, and fall in love with your own life. There’s so much more to experience.